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The Kindness of Strangers

posted Monday, 20 November 2006

    "Two sips from the cup of human kindness and I'm shit-faced. Just laid to waste."

    That about sums it up these days. I can't tell you all how much your support and kindness means to me. I've gotten notes, songs, reading suggestions, spiritual guidance and many, many sincere wishes for my well-being. I just wanted to say thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for everything.
    There's always been talk about the faceless, anonymous aspect of the internet that is supposed to be dehumanizing and isolating, and I suppose in some cases that's true, but not in mine, not from you all. You've made me feel like I matter, like what I have to say makes a difference, and for that I will always be grateful.
    Here's a pretty deep philosophical question for you: How do you know when you are loved? Which naturally leads to some music.
The New Pornographers--"Use It" mp3 off Twin Cinema (buy).
John Lennon--"Oh My Love" mp3 off Imagine (buy) (although mine is off Music From Gilmore Girls)
Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan with Eddie Vedder--"Face of Love" mp3 off Dead Man Walking Soundtrack (buy)
k.d. lang--"Love Is Everything" mp3 off Hymns of the 49th Parallel (buy) I love this cover of Jane Siberry's tune even better than the original. This is a sad one, though, don't say I didn't warn you.
Carly Simon--"When You Close Your Eyes" mp3 off No Secrets (buy) This is here purely for sentimental reasons.

**UPDATE** Fraser over at bklyn song of the day had another version of "Love Is Everything" up yesterday. And like I told him, I swear I wrote my post before I read his. We're just on the same wave length or something.

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1. Rachel left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 2:29 am :: http://lttlamb.blogspot.com/

Awwww

Geez, I got all teary, but in a good happy warm feeling. You are loved my dear. Thank you for being you. :)

Ummm as for the philosophical question...For me when I am listened to or heard rather is when I feel loved and appreciated. Like what I have to say matters even the little things.

And I enjoyed your selection of songs: The New Pornographers and John Lennon always fantastic. I love that Face of Love track! and it has been awhile but Carly Simon for some reason will always be ok in my book.:)


2. music like dirt left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 4:05 am :: http://www.musiclikedirt.com

Lovely selection of tracks there :) I always struggle with how personal to make my blog, and end up switching from lots of banal details to almost no mention of myself. One of the things I like about your blog apart from the music is the fact that there is a personality in the words.

PS I think I may have broken your email!??? I sent my mp3's, and then just a link to the files. May have overfilled it. sorry


3. mjrc left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 8:01 am :: http://lostinyourinbox.blog-city.com

rachel--right back at you, sister. i feel so fortunate to have met you and the rest of the gang. i get all squishy inside thinking about how we're all connected through the music and all that it means to each one of us. re: carly simon, she's one of my earliest influences. in fact, when i go back and listen to this album, i see how it shaped me in so many ways.

mld--i think i've gotten more and more personal as time has gone by. i feel much more relaxed about it now. it is a hard balance to find. although talk about personality, your blog is completely filled with yours. i've always been envious of your easy, funny writing style. : )


4. Mentok the Mindtaker left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 11:16 am :: http://mentokthemindtaker.blogspot.com

I think the question "how do you know when you are loved?" is a very personal one that differs from person to person.

I think that I will feel loved when at last I sit atop my Mountain of Power and survey my throngs of devotees sweating in the hot sun as they struggle to complete the 40-foot gold statue in my image. Sadly, I am starting to fear I may never know what love feels like...

...although when my six-year-old scrawls a stick figure picture entitled "dAD", it feels pretty similar, if not better.

Glad you're feeling better. You deserve it, 'cause you're good people...or a good blogger, anyway, which is very similar.


5. shane left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 4:19 pm :: http://thetorturegarden.blogspot.com

I kept trying to figure out a good way to express some solidarity with you, and to wish you a good way back to happiness, but I couldn't come up with a good one. Except to say: You are a writer. I still remember your post on munck//johnson. Also, I feel loved when I wake up and my girlfriend has brought me breakfast. Or when she agrees to marry me. These are good bits.


6. mjrc left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 5:14 pm :: http://lostinyourinbox.blog-city.com

mentok--you crack me up. seriously, though, do you mean the question is personal as opposed to philosophical, or just that it's personal in the sense of being particular to an individual? and kids? yeah, they're the best. especially when they're still young. then they become teenagers and disappear into the wilderness for a while. for example, my daughter recently told me i'm one of those weird blogger types. i could just feel the love! ;-)


7. FiL left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 5:29 pm :: http://pogoagfogo.blogspot.com

Only 40 feet in total? Dang, I should've read the design spec more closely, O Divine Mentok. We've just finished your tootsies to a height of 4O feet. So do we continue to that scale, or are you comfortable with your effigy

Marcy, it is indeed a strange and wondrous web! With the most fantastic songs vibrating on the strings.

As for feeling loved, I echo the value of kid-ometers. And dogs. No-one is happier to see me when I get home than my dog!!


8. FiL left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 5:38 pm :: http://pogoagfogo.blogspot.com

Argh! Blog City loves me not... Final sentence, first paragraph should have read:

"So do we continue to that scale, or are you comfortable with your effigy resembling one of those mind/body sensory homunculi??"


9. mjrc left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 9:41 pm

shane--i love that: solidarity. i accept the solidarity you offer. and that is the sweetest thing i've heard in a long time, that about your girlfriend bringing you breakfast and saying yes to marrying you. those are good bits indeed. : )


10. mjrc left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 9:46 pm

fil--i apologize profusely for the errant spiteful actions of blog-city as this is not the first time it's done you wrong. if only it were as welcoming and loving as your dog. ;-) oh, and i have no idea what homunculi is (are?).


11. FiL left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 10:32 pm :: http://pogoagogo.blogspot.com/

One homunculus, two homunculi. Here, check this out, it pretty much tells the story:

http://faculty.washington.edu/chudler/flash/hom.html


12. FiL left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 10:34 pm :: http://pogoagogo.blogspot.com/

Homunculus = Latin for "little man." Sorry, I'm feeling like quite the geek right now...


13. mjrc left...
Monday, 20 November 2006 10:59 pm :: http://lostinyourinbox.blog-city.com

that is one cool website, and the morphing man is absolutely the coolest thing ever. i believe i shall bookmark that for future reference!


14. Fraser left...
Tuesday, 21 November 2006 10:54 am :: http://brooklynsod.blogspot.com

This is such a nice group that has formed! And we have been thinking alike--I remember that with Tegan & Sara about a month ago.


15. mjrc left...
Tuesday, 21 November 2006 1:25 pm :: http://lostinyourinbox.blog-city.com

fb--i totally agree! : )


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