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I Tend to Take Things Personally

posted Thursday, 10 July 2008

     I lost a subscriber the other day.

     Big deal, you may say. Well, it is and it isn't. See, for the most part I realize that it doesn't actually reflect on me whether someone reads my blog. A person could unsubscribe for any number of reasons. I can't think of any at the moment, but I'm sure there are some. On the other hand, since my blog is all me, all the time, I can't help but take it personally when someone decides it's not worth reading anymore. Does that make sense?

     So although I'm not really all torn up about it on one level, on another it makes me feel sad and inadequate somehow. I'm not meeting someone's needs or expectations--someone who used to be satisfied (I assume) and no longer is. It's a very weird feeling. And yes, I'm being very silly, I know!

My Brightest Diamond--"Gone Away" mp3 off Bring Me the Workhorse (buy)

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1. adam left...
Friday, 11 July 2008 5:07 am :: http://www.pretendinglifeislikeasong.wor

Well I've now subscribed to make up that number, although I would have been reading anyway, but I hope it's at least a nice gesture. :) x


2. Tricia left...
Friday, 11 July 2008 6:28 am

Your numbers are going up by the minute. Now you have two new subscribers. I always get something out of reading your blog. Face it, Marcy, you have stuff to say and you say it well. And you have great taste in music...your own personal soundtrack. Glad you are safely back from your trip. Can't wait to hear about it.


3. rahawa left...
Friday, 11 July 2008 11:30 am :: http://www.thepopfilter.com

Your blog is one of my favorites, Marcy. Please don't feel blue.


4. FiL left...
Friday, 11 July 2008 12:02 pm :: http://pogoagogho.blogspot.com

Well, I recently entered the 21st century and started subscribing to RSS feeds, yours included, so I guess statistically I'm a new subscriber, even though I'm old hat.

As for the lost subscriber, perhaps s/he was feeling oppressed by and overcommitted to life. Too many notifications, too many demands on time, too much too much. And so by unsubscribing, s/he took a tiny step towards getting her/his shizzle back in kilter. And maybe s/he still fully intends to check back once in awhile. Pure speculation, but maybe that's what it was.

But, after all that, let me now enter Toad mode (or should that be Toad Moad?) and say:

For fuck's sake, Marcy, stop being so fucking silly! You're utterly fucking brilliant and we fucking love you!! :) :) :)


5. jc left...
Friday, 11 July 2008 3:40 pm :: http://www.thevinylvillain.blogspot.com

Well there you go....despite being a regular and all that, I'd thought I'd come in as a new subscriber to replace the one who has gone....and good old Adam beats me to the punch.

And I second FiL's (e)motion.....


6. mjrc left...
Friday, 11 July 2008 4:28 pm

geeze, i didn't mean to come off quite so "poor me" about this. i feel even sillier now! but i thank you ALL for your very kind words of support and encouragement.

and you know what? i don't subscribe to anyone's blog, via rss or anything else. i like the surprise factor that comes with clicking on the page and seeing if there's anything new there. i do have a couple of favorites on technorati, but technorati sucks so bad that you can't count on it to accurately keep track of things, so that doesn't really count.

anyhoo, you're all wonderful and i appreciate each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart. :) xx


7. Greer left...
Friday, 11 July 2008 5:46 pm

Hi there! I bet your subscriber just decided to go with Reader or some other service rather than the feeds. He or she is probably reading this right now!

Accept it, you rock!

And I hope we get to hear about the trip, glad you made it back safe and sound.


8. Agnes left...
Saturday, 12 July 2008 2:41 am :: http://itallstarted.wordpress.com

I don't subscribe to any feeds either. Two reasons. A) I'm lazy and I never bothered to figure out how. B) I chuck my regular reads on my blogroll so that they're all in one spot right where I need ém! And I'm with you Marcy, I kinda like the surprise factor too!


9. danielle left...
Saturday, 12 July 2008 8:18 am :: http://www.musicisart.ws

aww marcy, i go through those feelings too! when i believe ive lost a subscriber or dont have as much traffic as yesterday, or any other blogger woe ;) it does hurt. unfortunately, its both part of our sensitive and worried nature. when after a few hours or a different day, the memory slips.. we gain another new visitor and everything resumes as nothing ever happened at all.

in other words.. yr blog is loved by many, including me :)


10. Jamila Fucking Dance left...
Saturday, 12 July 2008 11:14 am :: http://fuckingdance.blogspot.com

it's their loss! :D x


11. mjrc left...
Saturday, 12 July 2008 5:17 pm

i like the way you all come at things from a slightly different angle. and it's extra good to know that you guys feel some of the same things i do. makes me feel less crazy! :)


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